This is one of our best songs ever! We loved doing this!!!
I love my sweet wife so much!! She is an amazing wife, incredible mom and super hard worker. We have had an outstanding 7 Years together and I thank God for all of it.
We have had some fun times the last 7 years. So for the next few days I will share some of those fun memories right here.
Here is one of our favorites from a vacation we took 2 years ago.
“It’s impossible to live the right life when you have the wrong friends.” Craig Groeschel
Friendships are always evolving, wouldn’t you agree? And not only are the relationships themselves evolving, our definition of what we would consider to be a friend evolves as well.
I can recall the types of “friends” I had during my teens and into my early twenties. Good heavens, can somebody feel me? Makes me grateful for that evolution I mentioned. Isn’t that season necessary though? It’s impossible to really appreciate a good friendship if you haven’t had a few shallow, one sided, selfish friendships to grow from. I feel like the Lord has taught me a lot in this area over the last six or seven years. Here’s where I’ve landed and the guidelines I try to stick to when it comes to my friendships.
It starts with you. The day I began looking inward, I was on my way to better friendships. Instead of approaching a friendship wondering what I could get out of it, I began looking for ways that I could contribute to the relationship. I began working toward being the type of friend I wanted in another person.
There is a necessary season of cutting ties to experience growth. This was painful for me. This was also the same time that the Lord was really working in my life in lots of areas. Pruning, if you will. It hurt. It was lonely. But oh, sister. How beautiful the growth it brought into my life. Growth and relationships I still benefit from today. There hasn’t been one thing that the Lord has asked me to lay down that I have looked back on and wished I hadn’t. NOT ONE.
Not everyone gets the free pass to be your friend. This is what you didn’t hear me say. I didn’t say not everyone deserves your respect or your kindness. And I didn’t say don’t be friendly. What I’m getting at here is filtering those that have access to your most precious, private spaces. Guarding your heart and using great wisdom and discernment when it comes to the people you allow in. I wholeheartedly believe that those we surround ourselves with are essential to the story we want to tell with our lives. Friendships are such a sweet, sweet, wonderful blessing. They possess the power to make or break us. Know your worth. For this reason I say, not everyone gets a free pass.
Not all friendships are created equal. What do I mean? There are different, but necessary, levels of friendships. Be ok with that. From your acquaintances, to your play-date park moms, women at the gym, women in your church, people you see daily, to narrowing the funnel down to the closest relationships you have. Your bestie for the restie! Yeah I said it. Different levels of friendships are ok, and in my opinion, very natural and healthy. You don’t have to divulge all to everyone. This is also a great place to practice wisdom when sharing your life.
Are you the problem? Is your life a revolving door of friends? Are you constantly “on the outs” with someone? Are you always, or frequently the victim? Does drama seem to follow you wherever you go? Do you always talk about yourself, rarely pausing to consider others? If you answered yes to any of these questions, I’m gonna break it to you gently. There’s about a 100% chance that you’re the problem. Begin to ask yourself what you can do to contribute to others lives instead of taking from it. A life lived all about ourselves isn’t much of a life at all. It takes some effort to learn how to give instead of always take. Be intentional.
Here’s what this all boils down to. You can have a lifetime of shallow friendships that come and go with the wind, or you can get vulnerable, do some self reflection and soul searching and gain real, deep, true friendships that will alter your definition of what a friend truly is. What story are you telling from the friends you choose? Might be time to make some hard decisions. Do it. You won’t be sorry.
I am very excited to share what God has been doing in our student ministry at Second Baptist Houston West Campus this year.
We have really focused this year on creating an environment that teenagers get excited to invite their friends to. Both on Sunday morning and Wednesday nights at LIVE.
LIVE is our “Open Door” to our student ministry that happens on Wednesday nights. We have created a space that students can invite their friends to, and can experience God in an amazing way. We do this through worship; with Biblical teaching and a variety of music led with a full band.
The goal of the entire night is that God is glorified through all that we do, from the lighting cues during the walk in, to the final song they hear as they walk out. We have worked hard to be excellent in every detail of the night. We believe that the more prayed for and prepared we are for each night the more opportunities we have to see God move.
Each and every space that we have people come into we do an invitation for people to accept Christ for the first time. Then we meet with each student as well as follow up with them and encourage them to take their first step in obedience to the Lord through baptism.
So far this year from October 1st we have seen 222 teenagers baptized on Wednesday nights & Sunday morning. We also have an amazing summer camp called Beach Retreat that we saw 244 students baptized.
This year total evangelism Student ministry at Second Baptist Houston – West Campus since October 1st.
Junior High – 123 BR – 137 outside Beach Retreat Camp
High School – 121 BR – 85 outside Beach Retreat Camp
222 – Total Outside of Beach Retreat 244 – At Beach Retreat Summer Camp 466 – Total Baptisms
This is has been an amazing year so far, and it is all through the students inviting their friends to church and God changing their life. Then those who accepted Christ and started to invite their friends and the ripple effect continuing on.
This video shows it perfectly, these are students from our ministry who have personally seen God work in their lives, through a simple invitation.
Have you ever been passionately heading in one direction, only to look up and be sorely off course, in a completely different place than you had originally planned? Often times, we set out to do something and we’re 100% in, we’re super excited and confident that we’re going to make it happen. This could be a work opportunity, a moment in our relationship with our family, or even our walk with the Lord. In the moment we feel as though everything is going great, then somehow, someway we realize that we are in a different place than we had originally planned.
We’ve been tripped up and there we are, on the ground staring up and wondering what in the world happened.
This is normal, although this is something that no one is talking about. This is not the most popular Instagram post. People don’t tweet about how they’ve fallen or failed to be where they thought they should be. It’s not the most liked Facebook post. People don’t want to admit or share that they’ve failed or fallen. Some just want their life to look perfect. When in reality, life is hard and people fall and experience pain.
The question is, what is our response? Some stay in the failure and in the pain, never getting up from the spot where they were tripped up. The best response is to stand up and start running with all you have again!
Philippians 4.13-14 Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have laid hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize of God’s heavenly calling in Christ Jesus.
In Philippians, Paul commands us and teaches us through his life. He shows us that we need to forget the past, and get up and GO! We need to strain onto what is AHEAD, and forget what is behind.
This video of my son is a perfect example of this. Yes it’s funny and it’s ok to laugh. I think it’s neat to see that he didn’t stay down and cry in his pain, and he didn’t allow the laughs of the other kids to stop him. Notice how hard he was running, he got tripped up, but got back up and continued on to destroy the goal that he originally set out to get! Then he jumps with all he has to where the other kids were sitting. He was pumped that he crushed the reason he first started running. Let’s stand up and start running again, start today!
For so long my favorite verse has been Psalm 46.10…. I have it on my wall in my office I stare at it all day long. I preach it, tell it, counsel with it, etc. I have just found that at times I need to REALLY put it into practice.
Can I really “Be still and know He is God.” It is hard at times to just do the first part “BE” can I even do that just “BE.”
I work hard to focus on this and let it really be lived out in my life. Life can at times be so incredible, but happening at a speed that is very fast. Those are the moments that we forget to just BE…. I challenge you to BE this week… What is that? How do we “BE”? I would take time and ask God, and see what He says about you being “Be” You have to figure that out for your self.
When Emersyn and Ayler say Da-Da it is so amazing!
I love it when Emersyn my soon to be 4-year-old little girl- says Daddy, Daddio, or even DaDA. I love it! There is just something about hearing her say those words that will never get old.. (It did at times, when she was 1 and that is all she could say, example – Dada meant I’m hungry, tired, board, or more Mickey)
What being her dada does to me is makes me strive to be the best DADA I can for her… Reminds me that I need to sacrifice things for her to spend time with her. I need to get on the floor and play with her Ponies, her Anna and Elsa, twirl her in her princess dress, watch Sophia with her, go to daddy daughter events at her school and church, tell her she looks beautiful when she gets dressed on her own and looks like an unmatched Christmas tree with all the accessories. I need to get off my phone when I am home with her, so she can see my eyes looking at her instead of the top of my head. I need to take her on walks, dates, and just us to go to the park or pool.
Am I a perfect DaDa? No, but I am giving it my all. I want her to know that I will always be here for her, I will always listen to her, I will always protect her, and I will always love her!
I want to encourage dads to please stop pouring into things that wont last and start pouring into your little girls. They have always needed us and always will need us. Right now in our world we as Christian Dads need to step it up. We must be spending time with them. Look at your time, where is it going? Is it work? Then take time off to spend with her, don’t look back on your time as a dada and wish you would have left work a little earlier, or didn’t answer that call, or turned the game off just to spend time with her. Before you know it they will be out of the house and searching for a man who is similar to you, being the only example that she has seen.. What are you showing her?